Friday, August 26, 2011
Why am I Surprised?
Disclaimer: It is fairly long so if you don't have the time to read all the details, the "Reader's Digest" version is that the Lord led us to just the right people at the right timing to a house that is VERY close to the neighborhood we plan to be working in and the ranch where our coworkers live. The owner also attends TEAM's church plan here in La Paz as well which we did not know until she got out of her car to show the house to us. :)
Now for the LONG version with all the details....
Matthew 7: 9-11 “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!
As I reflect over the last few days since our arrival in La Paz, I can't help but be overwhelmed. Overwhelmed in the best possible way at the goodness of God and the way He has ordered each step! So much so that I would love to blast some worship music right now. Seeing as it is almost 11pm though, I better not!
Earlier this evening, the Lord brought the verses to mind from Matthew 7. The Lord has been teaching me so much about prayer this past year and once again, I see I have so much to learn. It should not have surprised me how quickly He moved on our behalf for a house when so many scattered around the world were praying for that very thing!
On Tuesday, when we started our hunt, it was frustrating for so many reasons. Even though we've been here many times for meetings and conferences, we still don't really "know" the city-its streets, its neighborhoods, etc. Just when Phil and I were feeling discouraged about driving around seeming aimlessly, our good friend Alejandra called my cel and asked what we were doing. (She is from La Paz and has been a good friend since we were in language school. She was attending the seminary part of the school while we were there. Our family loves her and she has been a tremendous blessing to us.) She offered to help us. She helped with looking in the paper with us, making calls on our behalf regarding potential houses, narrowing down what parts of the city would be most ideally located for our ministry, etc.
That afternoon, we decided to drop Phil and the kids off back where we were staying so that Alejandra and I could drive around some and go to an appointment to see a house later. While driving around a neighborhood she felt would be a good one for our family, we saw a couple of larger houses that appeared to be empty but with no for rent signs posted. She suggested we stop and ask some of the neighbors. We met a mother and her son who is in his late 20's. They were both very helpful and the son asked us many questions about what we needed, what part of the city, etc. He then told us he had a friend whose family had moved to other parts and had two houses and perhaps we might be able to rent one. He offered to call her for us and arranged for us to meet up the next day to meet his friend and see her house.
Fast forward to the next day...Alejandra and I had seen some pretty dismal houses and my expectations were decreasing rapidly. I had resigned myself to the fact that probably any house we rent will need a lot of work. So, when followed the young man to his friend's house, I was instantly struck by how nice and well-kept it was from the outside. I even loved the color of it-a nice shade of green! When the owner arrived and got out of her car, Alejandra says to me in surprise, "I know her! She attends my church, La Paz de Cristo." At that moment, my spirit felt in awe because it seemed way too much of a "coincidence". It sure seemed as if the Lord was confirming that this was the place. It is a beautiful house-not perfect-but really well cared for and with three large bedrooms and patios outside. Plenty of room for the kids to play and to have people over.
Of course, the more analytical side of me started to take over later and I started to doubt. Maybe this is too quick. Maybe we should look more. Are we rushing God?, etc. So, that night, we had a really good talk with the kids and a time of prayer about the houses we had seen. There were two others that were ok but one of them would need some work before we could move in and the other was farther away from the part of the city we wanted to be in. We all felt that the green house was the best option in spite of the fact that it had only 1 bathroom. :) Phil suggested that we pray very specifically about it and for the Lord's confirmation. We decided to do a Gideon type of thing. We prayed that if this was the right house, that when we got the day's paper again that there would be no new ads that would fit our needs and that a lady who was also trying to find a house for us would not have found any options. Yesterday morning, there were no new ads and the lady did not have any housing options for us. It felt like total confirmation-just like when Gideon put the fleece out.
We went and saw the house one more time last night and ask the owner some of the questions we had thought of since our initial meeting with her. At the end, we had decided to offer the young man who had helped arrange it all some money for his expenses for gas and his cel phone but her refused it. Alejandra pointed out that it was perhaps another confirmation from the Lord because he was sincerely just trying to help out without expectation of monetary reward-truly a gift sent to us from the Lord...just like the house!
One of the best parts for me is that our kids got to be such an integral part in the whole process. I pray this has been a tremendous faith building lesson in each of their lives as well.
Bits from the Baja: E-mail Update 8/23/11
"Lord, put your angels around our tires. Surround our van right now. Be with Phil as he drives," was a repeated prayer during our second day of driving. We hit a couple of nasty stretches of construction where the road was completely torn up and blowing out our tires a very real concern. Thank you so much for praying us down. We sensed your prayers throughout the drive and we have no doubts that they contributed greatly to our safe arrival here in La Paz yesterday evening.
We would greatly appreciate your continued prayers as we search for just the right house for our family. We were able to check out several houses today and already have several appointments lined up for tomorrow. We are trusting that the Lord has just the right one out there for our family and we want to be sensitive to His leading.
By His Grace,
The Eager Family
Home Assignment Happenings (E-mail update): FINAL Edition for this Home assignment 8/18/11
We are excited to let you know that we are on our way back to Mexico! We plan to cross the border early tomorrow (Friday) morning. Our home assignment has been full of so many blessings. It has been wonderful visiting with many of you over the course of the year and share firsthand what the Lord has been doing in Mexico. We are so grateful for the wonderful support team God has provided for us. Your prayers and encouragement keep us going! God is faithful and has provided all we were lacking for our return to ministry in the Baja. We praise Him especially for our newest partners, Leona Valley Community Church. They provided a home church for us during the second half of our home assignment and have been His hands and feet to our family.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Home Assignment Happenings E-mail Update: 5/12/2011
(Pictures posted above-courtsey of the Reyes')
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Where Do You Live?
For most people, this question doesn’t generate any anxiety, concern, confusion or related emotions. However, for our family right now, it is an especially hard question. With all the transitions we have faced and continue to face on the mission field, here on home assignment right now and as we plan and prepare for our return to Mexico, it becomes increasingly more difficult. Our seven year old, Micah, summed it up really well a few weeks ago when he cheerfully and matter of factly said, “We don’t live anywhere, we live everywhere!”
In all honesty, at the time, I did not know whether to laugh or cry. Laugh because it is comical in a sense all of the places we’ve been. Cry because I know he is lacking something I had growing up-the sense of security and permanence that living in one house for most of your growing up years can provide. It also reminded me of the Bible’s teaching about the reality that this world is NOT our home. But, oh, at times, it is still hard to not long for that sense of security and permanence that a fixed address seems to provide.
Recent events in our lives have had me pondering these issues once again…where do you live? At this point in our lives and ministry, there seem to be more questions than answers regarding our future. I confess that I am what I like to call a “recovering control freak” as step by shaky step, I am learning to yield control over to the Lord-it was really always His anyways, right?! So, you can imagine that unknowns tend to stress me out. Well, I have just been through several experiences that have filled me with such peace that I KNOW could ONLY come from Him. This recovering control freak could never have mustered this sense of deep, abiding peace on her own-that is for sure!
You see, as our world, some of our dreams were shaken the other day and we felt blind sided-He showed up in such a powerful and undeniable way for me. This experience with my Savior has been such a growing, testing one and at times painful but oh so worth it for the glimpses of Him and His enfolding embrace I felt and continue to feel.
As I sat contemplating where we will live, He brought me to a quote that I felt He placed for me to find at just the right moment to bear fruit in my life. For you see, the idea was not all that new or profound but it was for me at that moment. The quote is, “Make God your permanent residence. Everything else is just temporary.” I don’t even know who said it first but oh the profound truth for me in that moment. That longing for security and permanence-fulfilled when I chose to make Him my PERMANENT residence. My tears over what felt like a lost dream turned to peace and joy knowing that the dream lost wasn’t lost at all-for HE is my one hope and my dream-everything else truly is temporary.
Then we went to church in the morning and every song was like a resounding confirmation to TRUST completely in Him and to LIVE in Him. God knew I needed that extra reminder of what He’d shown me the night before. Those songs had been planned days, perhaps weeks, before but He knew exactly what I needed that morning.
Blessed Be Your Name reminded me that even though He gives and takes away, I still need to choose to praise Him and it reminded me of what a pastor once spoke about that song-how if we cling too tightly to something, then our hands cannot be open to receive what God wants to give us in its place. So, while that dream had looked so good, I am now expectant and excited for the new one He will give.
Another song spoke of how sweet it is to trust in Jesus and I think, in that moment, I finally understood completely what those lyrics meant even though I’d been singing that hymn practically since I learned to speak.
Finally, another old hymn held such power and meaning as never before-I Surrender All. O Father, I do surrender it all-our future, my control freak ways… EVERYTHING! Towards the end of the song, it actually says, “In His presence daily live.” I can’t say that the line ever held such meaning to me before.
So, back to the original question, where do you live?
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Home Assignment Happenings (E-mail update): March 2, 2011
Warm greetings from the Phoenix area!
We left California this past weekend just before the camp we are staying at was to be hit by a snow storm. The kids were a bit disappointed but we were grateful to have escaped. We realized after the first two snows there that we are no longer used to the cold and especially snow! However, we are thankful that our kids' prayers for snow to play in have been answered! (I will attach a picture of them.)
We are currently participating in a missions conference in Sun City, Arizona. It has been a wonderful time of teaching and encouragement. We love sharing what God is doing in Mexico and we absolutely love hearing what He is doing all over the world as well. We greatly appreciate your continued prayers for safety when we need to travel in order to visit churches and individuals.
We have not had a lot to report the past several months. Much of our time has been spent settling in to the trailer we are living in at the camp and connecting with people and churches. We are grateful for the continued opportunities the Lord has provided for us to share what the He is doing in Mexico. We feel especially blessed by the Lord's guidance to a nearby church for us to attend while living there. It reminds us a lot of our church in Mexico because of how warm and welcoming everyone is.
Before closing out, we want to share a bit from a report we received from our co-workers in San Jose del Cabo. We are praising the Lord that several newer youth have accepted Christ. Please pray with us that they will continue to grow spiritually and become leaders within the youth group and the church. They have also asked prayer for several who are struggling spiritually. Please pray particularly for one young lady who is choosing to marry later this month against the wishes of her family and for another young man who has decided he wants nothing more to do with his faith. We know that the prayers of God's people are powerful and effective. Thank you for rejoicing with us for those who have come to know Him and for standing with us in prayer for those in need.
By His Grace,
Phil and Pattie


